4 Myths about Comforting Friends

I found this useful and interesting post by Maura Kelly on the Marie Claire website!

4 Myths about Comforting Friends

In two recent posts, I've talked about the advice grief educator Val Walker gives on how to help friends who are dealing with the end of a relationship, whether from a breakup or the loss of a loved one. Those posts have focused mostly on what to say. Now, let's talk about myths surrounding the art of comforting — and about a few things you should (and shouldn't) do if you want to help.

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